The Real Way to Get That Lived-In Painted Look (Secrets from a Furniture Pro)

by John Griffith
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My hands have been covered in some combination of paint, dust, and wax for more years than I can count. I’m not a fancy designer; I’m a furniture restorer. Day in and day out, I’m in my workshop, taking forgotten pieces and giving them a new story. So many people bring me furniture they’ve found at a flea market and say they want that “shabby chic” look. But honestly, that phrase means something different to everyone.

To some, it’s just slapping white paint on an old table. But for a craftsperson? Oh, it’s so much more. It’s a delicate balance between respecting the piece’s past and making it beautiful for today’s homes. It’s not about making something look broken. It’s about suggesting a gentle history—the corner of a dresser smoothed down by decades of passing hands, or the edges of a table where chairs have been tucked in after countless family dinners.

shabby chic furniture, vintage chair with white chipping paint, antique pale blue and white cupboard, bed with white wrought-iron frame, and soft white bedding

My goal here is to show you how to create that look the right way. We’re going to go way beyond a simple coat of paint to create a finish with depth, character, and a truly authentic feel.

First Things First: Know Your Materials

Before you even think about picking up a paintbrush, you have to understand what you’re working with. This is the stuff that separates a quick DIY job from a piece that looks professionally restored. Trust me, a little knowledge here prevents a lot of headaches later.

Your Canvas: The Furniture Itself

Not all wood is created equal, and the type you have will completely change your game plan.

  • Solid Wood: This is your best-case scenario. Softwoods like pine are a dream because they distress so easily, giving you that soft, rustic vibe. Hardwoods like oak or maple are tougher, but their beautiful, pronounced grain can be highlighted in incredible ways with waxes.
  • Veneer: This is a super thin slice of real wood glued over a cheaper core like particleboard. You can still work with veneer, but you have to be gentle. I’ve seen people sand right through that thin layer, and… well, it’s game over for the piece. A light touch is absolutely essential.
  • Laminate/MDF: Let’s be frank: this isn’t wood. It’s basically a plastic or paper photo of wood grain glued to a particleboard core. You can’t distress it in the same way, and getting paint to stick requires special bonding primers. I usually tell people to steer clear of these pieces for this kind of project.
kitchen with white vintage cupboards, two white wooden shelves, shabby chic furniture, various mugs and plates, in pale pastel pink and teal

The Heart of the Look: Choosing Your Paint

The paint you choose is probably the single most important decision you’ll make. Each type has a totally different personality.

Chalk-Style Paint: First off, this isn’t the stuff you use to make a chalkboard. It’s a special decorative paint that’s super thick and dries to a beautiful, matte, slightly chalky finish. Its main superpower is that it sticks to almost anything with very little prep. Because it’s porous, it’s a breeze to distress with sandpaper or even a wet rag. Good to know: It’s not very durable on its own, so you absolutely have to seal it. You can find popular brands in most craft stores or boutique paint shops.

Milk Paint: This is the old-school, traditional stuff. It actually comes as a powder that you mix with water yourself. It’s famous for its ability to naturally chip and crackle when applied over an existing finish, creating a genuinely aged look that’s almost impossible to fake. The downside? It’s a bit unpredictable. For a truly authentic, rustic finish, though, nothing else compares. Quick tip for mixing: I usually start with a 1:1 ratio of powder to water and stir until it has the consistency of thin pancake batter. Then, let it sit for about 10-15 minutes to let the pigments fully dissolve before you start painting.

dining room with long wooden table, in white and brown, with matching chairs, shabby chic furniture, green walls with many framed images

Latex or Acrylic Paint: This is your standard wall paint from the hardware store. Yes, you can use it, but it’s more work. It has a more plastic-like feel, so you absolutely have to scuff sand the original finish and use a quality primer to make it stick. Sometimes when you try to distress it, it peels or gums up instead of sanding away cleanly. It’s doable, but not my first choice for this style.

The Beginner’s Shopping List

Walking into a big-box hardware store can be overwhelming. To make it simple, here’s a list of what you’ll actually need for your first project. Expect to spend between $75 and $100 for all the initial supplies, but they’ll last you for more than one piece.

  • Cleaner: A TSP substitute (you can find this powder in the paint aisle).
  • Sandpaper: Get a couple of grits, like 120-grit for prep and 220-grit for distressing.
  • Primer: A shellac-based, stain-blocking primer is your best friend. It seals in old wood tannins that can bleed through and stain your light paint.
  • Paint: A quart of your chosen paint (chalk-style is great for beginners).
  • Brushes: A quality 2-inch angled synthetic brush is a great all-around choice.
  • Sealer: Either a soft finishing wax or a water-based polycrylic in a matte finish.
  • Supplies: Lint-free rags (old t-shirts work great), gloves, and painter’s tape.
pastel pink screen and vintage armchair, in bedroom with white walls, bed with pink frame, white bedding and pink floral cover with matching pillow, shabby chic furniture

My Step-by-Step Process for a Flawless Finish

A professional-looking finish is all about building layers. Skipping steps is the fastest way to a disappointing result. Don’t rush this part!

Step 1: Prep Work is 90% of the Job

I cannot stress this enough. Good prep is the foundation for a finish that will last for years, not months.

First, clean the entire piece thoroughly with a TSP substitute mixed with water. Wear gloves! You need to get rid of decades of furniture polish, oils, and grime. Then, make any repairs—tighten wobbly legs with wood glue and clamps, and fill any deep gouges with wood filler. A lesser-known trick: After the wood filler is dry and sanded, dab a little primer just over the patch before you prime the whole piece. This helps it blend in seamlessly and prevents a dull spot in your final finish.

Next, scuff sand the entire piece with 120-grit sandpaper. You’re not trying to strip it, just rough up the surface so the primer can grip. Wipe away all the dust, and then prime. Priming is NON-NEGOTIABLE, especially on old mahogany or cherry pieces. I once painted a beautiful dresser white without priming. Within a week, ugly pink blotches bled through everywhere. I had to sand it all off and start over. A lesson you only need to learn once!

bathtub in white, with golden ornamental legs, shabby chic furniture, on wooden floor with faded rug, and fluffy lambskin throw, near antique chair and various decorations

Step 2: Building Up Layers of History

Now for the fun part. This is where the artistry comes in.

  1. The Base Coat (Optional but cool): For a more complex look, I sometimes start with a dark base coat, like a deep brown or gray, just on the edges and corners. When you distress later, this color peeks through, looking like old wood.
  2. The Resist Trick: After your primer is dry, grab a simple wax candle or a block of paraffin wax. Lightly rub it on the high-contact areas where you want the paint to chip away—corners, raised details, and edges.
  3. The Top Coat: Apply your main color. I always recommend two thin coats instead of one thick one. It looks so much more professional. By the way, a little secret from the workshop: to speed up drying time between coats, you can use a regular hairdryer on a low, cool setting. Just keep it moving so you don’t accidentally crackle the paint before you want to!
pale beige carpet, in a child's bedroom, white antique french sofa bed, with decorative elements, vintage armchair and small tables, shabby chic furniture, chandelier and old-looking chair

Step 3: The Art of Distressing (Less is More!)

This requires a gentle hand. It’s so easy to go too far and make the piece look like it fell off a truck.

Using a 220-grit sanding block, gently sand the areas where you applied the wax. The top coat will come right off, revealing the primer or dark base coat underneath. Focus on those logical wear spots. Step back frequently to look at the piece as a whole. Does it look balanced?

For an even softer look, especially with chalk-style paint, try wet distressing. Just take a damp (not soaking!) microfiber cloth and gently rub the edges. The paint will re-activate and wipe away, leaving a perfectly smooth, time-worn edge instead of a scratchy, sanded one.

Step 4: Sealing Your Work for Durability

Your beautiful paint job needs protection. An unsealed piece will stain and scuff in no time. You have two main options:

many framed images on a white wall, inside a living room with shabby chic furniture, two identical sofas in cream, with wooden armrests, table and armchair and various decorations
  • Finishing Wax: This is the classic choice. It gives a soft, mellow sheen that feels amazing. The downside? It’s not waterproof and isn’t ideal for a kitchen table. It also needs to be reapplied every year or so. To really bring out the details, try a dark wax. The technique feels scary at first, but it’s magic. Use a brush or rag to push the dark wax into all the crevices, then immediately wipe the excess off the flat surfaces with a clean rag. This leaves the “grime” of age behind in all the low spots.
  • Water-Based Polycrylic: For high-use surfaces, this is your best bet. It’s a clear top coat that’s much more durable. The key is to ALWAYS choose a matte or satin finish. A glossy top coat will look like plastic and completely ruin the soft, aged vibe.

Help! What Went Wrong? A Quick Troubleshooting Guide

Even pros run into problems. Here are a couple of common issues and how to fix them.

white vintage bed with baldachin, vintage suitcases and two rustic lanterns, shabby chic furniture and decorations
  • The Problem: Yellow or pink stains are bleeding through my new white paint!
    The Cause & Fix: You’ve got tannin bleed from the old wood. This is exactly why a shellac-based primer is so important. Unfortunately, the only real fix is to sand the piece back down, apply a proper stain-blocking primer, and then repaint.
  • The Problem: My paint is peeling or scraping off in big chunks, not sanding nicely.
    The Cause & Fix: This usually happens for two reasons: either the surface wasn’t cleaned well enough, or you used a paint (like latex) that doesn’t feather out well when sanded. Proper cleaning and using chalk-style or milk paint will prevent this.

Beyond the Basics: Advanced Techniques

Once you’ve got the basics down, you can start playing with more advanced methods to create truly unique pieces.

You can create an amazing cracked finish using a special crackle medium, or you can layer multiple colors—like yellow, then blue, then white—and distress through them at different depths to tell a story of a piece being repainted over generations. You can even add graphics using furniture transfers for a crisp, detailed look that’s tough to get any other way.

close up of an engraved wooden detail, on antique cupboard, unevenly painted in off-white color, ornamental metal handles

A Final Word on Safety: Please Read This

This is the most important part of this whole guide. A beautiful dresser isn’t worth your health.

Heads up! Any furniture made before the late 1970s could be covered in lead-based paint. It’s highly toxic, especially the dust from sanding. Before you start any project on an old piece, please test for it. You can buy lead-test swabs at the hardware store for a few bucks. If it tests positive, you cannot dry sand it. All sanding must be done wet to control the dust, and you must wear a respirator with P100 cartridges (not a simple dust mask). Seriously, if you’re not comfortable with these safety protocols, it’s always better to hire a professional.

And for any project, always work in a well-ventilated area, wear safety glasses, and use gloves. It’s just smart practice.

Disclaimer: This advice comes from my own professional experience. Every piece is unique, so always test your techniques on a hidden spot first! And please, always follow the safety warnings on the products you use.

small wooden cabinet in pale green, with four tiny drawers and a compartment, shabby chic furniture, large gold bangle, and white flowers placed on top of it

Inspirational Gallery

shabby sheek, armchair with pale blue fabric, decorated with grey and yellow floral pattern, near antique table in white and brown, with two matching chairs
cream shabby chic sofa, with floral cushions, armchair with a matching floral pattern, near white round antique coffee table, in living room with pale pastel pink walls, shabby sheek
modern shabby chic sofa with striped throw, and white cushions, armchair in grey patterned damask, ox skin rug
wooden table in vintage style, painted white and decorated with books and other objects, shabby sheek, rocking chair and vintage wardrobes, in white and brown

Chalk Paint vs. Milk Paint: Annie Sloan Chalk Paint® is beloved for its incredible adhesion—it sticks to almost any surface with minimal prep. It creates a velvety, matte finish. General Finishes Milk Paint, on the other hand, is known for its ability to naturally chip and flake when applied over a sealed surface, creating a genuinely old-world, chippy look. Your choice depends on the exact style of “lived-in” you’re aiming for.

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antique green french sofa, with wooden legs and details, two white cushions and a white throw, vintage wooden coffee table, with legs painted white, lots of empty frames on the wall
round ornamental coffee table in white, near cream and beige colored chair, and matching shabby chic sofa, with two cushions, shabby sheek decorations
mirror covered cupboard, near cream shabby chic sofa with cushions, wooden stool with white furry top, faded vintage rug, shabby sheek pale pink walls
  • Create an authentic-looking paint crackle by applying a coat of Elmer’s School Glue over your base color.
  • While the glue is still tacky, paint your top coat over it, brushing in one direction only.

The magic? As the paint and glue dry, fine cracks will appear, mimicking decades of aging.

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blackboard wall decorated with white chalk writing, large wooden table, partially painted white, with matching white chairs, shabby sheek chandelier and decorations
floral wallpaper in white and pink, in living room, white wooden floor, beige rug and shabby sheek sofa, cupboards in pale green and off-white

“I believe in the beauty of imperfection… It’s the history of a piece, the story of its life, that makes it truly beautiful.” – Rachel Ashwell

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large shiny retro metal stove, in shabby sheek kitchen with brown-grey walls, cream colored vintage door, white vintage round table, and brown chairs
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white kitchen with rough brown tiled floor, wooden kitchen island painted in white, shelves with various utensils, shabby chic decorating

Before you even think of sanding, give your piece a thorough cleaning. Years of furniture polish, grease, and grime can ruin a paint finish. A degreasing cleaner like Krud Kutter or even a simple solution of dish soap and warm water works wonders. Pay special attention to detailed carvings where dust loves to hide.

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How do I choose the right sandpaper for distressing?

Start with a medium grit (like 150) for initial distressing on edges and high-traffic areas. Then, move to a fine grit (220 or higher) to smooth out the transitions between the painted and exposed wood. This subtle step is the key to making the wear look natural rather than freshly sanded.

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vanity in antique french style, painted in white, and featuring an oval mirror, and a matching stool, shabby chic decorating, different flowers in vases and cups
wardrobe in vintage style, painted white and featuring a mirror, inside a room with cream floors, shabby chic decorating, clothes and duvets on a vintage chair
dressmaker's dummy in white and pink, near an ornamental, french antique dresser, shabby chic decorating, cream and pale blue wallpaper, white wardrobe and cupboard

The final touch that truly elevates a painted piece is the hardware. Don’t just paint over the old metal pulls. Consider swapping them for something new that complements the style. Mercury glass knobs, simple ceramic pulls, or antique-style brass handles can completely transform the character of a dresser or cabinet.

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striped multicolored faded rug, in bathroom with pink pastel walls, and white paneling, shabby chic decorating, antique chair and white bathtub, and large window, with sheer cream curtains
country chic décor, off-white antique cupboard-turned-writing-desk, with black handles, near small ornate table, screen and empty decorative frame

According to the EPA, Americans generate over 12 million tons of furniture waste each year.

Every piece you rescue from a flea market or your own attic and repaint is more than just a decorating choice; it’s a small, beautiful act of sustainability. You’re not just creating a lovely item for your home, you’re keeping a piece of history out of a landfill.

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pale acid green chest of drawers, with a lamp, a framed photo and a and a candle, near round mirror, in large ornate black frame, country chic décor
matching small antique cupboards, in mint green, country chic décor, placed on a pale beige carpet, near a vase with white flowers
off-white decorative round antique cupboard, with small black round handles, country chic décor, on pale grey background

Want to test your distressing technique before committing to a large piece of furniture? Try it on smaller items first:

  • Wooden picture frames
  • A small jewelry box
  • An old cutting board (for decoration)
  • A single wooden shelf
plates and cups in pastel pink, and in white with floral motifs, with matching jugs and teapots, country chic décor, white shabby wooden cupboard
duck's egg blue antique cupboard, with plates and jars, and other kitchen utensils, country chic décor, cream armchair with throw, lamp and wall clock
birdcage with vintage look, containing cristmas baubles, country chic décor, placed near a pine branch, on an off-white distressed cupboard, with brown top
milk jug with antique design, near white flowers, country chic décor, placed on small cupboard or nightstand, unevenly painted in white

The Secret to Depth: For a truly rich finish, use two different colors. Apply a darker shade (like a charcoal grey or deep brown) as your base coat. Once dry, cover it with your main color (like a cream or pale blue). When you distress the piece, bits of the darker color will peek through along with the wood, adding incredible dimension and a sense of history.

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country cottage furniture, two pale green and white identical cupboards, with three drawers each, antique renovated style, artworks and decorations
pastel turquoise antique cupboard, with ornaments and black handles, country cottage furniture

Clear Wax vs. Dark Wax: A clear finishing wax (like Fiddes & Sons) will seal your paint and give it a soft, mellow sheen. A dark wax (like Annie Sloan’s Dark Chalk Paint® Wax) is an aging tool. Use it sparingly over the clear wax in crevices and details to instantly create the look of aged grime and patina. Always apply clear wax first to control the dark wax’s intensity.

close up of ornamental details, on worn antique dresser, painted in aged cream color, country cottage furniture, white wooden floor
chest of drawers in antique style, painted in shabby cream color, country cottage furniture, on white floor, near goatskin rug, and floral wallpaper in white and grey
rustic flower bouquet, placed on french sofa in turquoise, with ornamental engraved cream details, placed on a lawn, near books and dried plants
french sofa in vivid red, with buttons and brown legs and ornaments, cream cushion with three navy stripes, brown and cream wardrobe with duvets

Did you know? Modern chalk-style paint was invented by Annie Sloan in 1990 to be a versatile paint that would adhere to most surfaces without priming.

Its unique formulation, which allows for easy distressing and waxing, is what kickstarted the painted furniture revival and made the shabby chic look accessible to DIY enthusiasts everywhere.

hare print pale cream cushion, on off-white antique chair, with ivory-colored details, country cottage furniture, white background and wooden floor
dresser in antique style, unevenly painted in grey-brown and pale turquoise, country cottage furniture, near vintage dressmaker's dummy and cowboy boots
nightstand table in coral pink, in antique style with small drawer, country cottage furniture, decorative painted wooden boards, lamp and other items

What about laminate or melamine furniture?

Yes, you can paint it! But skipping the prep here is a fatal error. These slick, non-porous surfaces need a special primer to give the paint something to grip. Clean the piece thoroughly, then apply a shellac-based bonding primer like Zinsser B-I-N. It’s smelly, but it creates a rock-solid foundation for your paint.

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record player in a vintage suitcase, placed on retro cabinet, repainted white and brown, and pale turquoise, shabby sheek interior
jug made from rusty metal, with curved handle, containing pale pink peonies, country cottage furniture, rough cream tablecloth, with three red stripes
working desk in antique french style, with drawer and painted in white, matching white chair, country cottage furniture, storage baskets and decorative frames

Don’t just think in white and cream. The lived-in look is beautiful with color. A soft Duck Egg Blue, a muted Sage Green, or even a cheerful Buttermilk Yellow can serve as the primary color. The key is to choose shades that have a slightly greyed or dusty undertone, which keeps them feeling soft and vintage rather than stark and modern.

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natural wooden table, with four mismatched chairs, in cream and white, grey shabby dresser, shabby chic furniture, ornate crystal chandelier
throw in yellow and pale blue, on cream and red french sofa, settee cushion features a red, orange and green floral print
  • A finish that feels soft and buttery to the touch.
  • A subtle, natural-looking sheen, not a plasticky gloss.
  • Water-resistance for your finished piece.

The secret? Applying finishing wax with a dedicated wax brush and buffing it with a lint-free cloth once it’s dry to the touch.

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chair in white with ornamental, heart-shaped backrest, and floral cushion, shabby sheek look, beige carpet and curtains
rose patterned fabric in pink, green and white, on antique wooden chair, painted in white
antique and vintage inspired vanities, in off-white, turquoise and peach, with various ornaments and decorations, vintage chic aesthetic

Don’t overdo it: The biggest mistake beginners make is distressing the piece too uniformly. Real wear happens in specific places: around knobs, along edges, on legs where a vacuum might hit, and on high points of carvings. Step back frequently and ask yourself: “Where would this piece naturally show wear after 50 years?”

before and after photo, showing dark brown wooden dresser, repainted in pastel turquoise, and decorated with a white graphic
old country house cupboard, decorated with ornaments, and unevenly repainted in pale teal, and dark brown
pastel lilac colored dresser, with a writing desk, repainted in duck's egg blue, and decorated with golden ornamental handles

That earthy, slightly sweet scent of old wood mixed with beeswax is the true perfume of a furniture restorer’s workshop. It’s the smell of stories being preserved.

clear glass flower vase, on grey desk with drawers, hand-decorated with white patterns, near window with teal curtain
hydrangeas in blue and violet, in a vase placed on antique dresser, with mirror and chipping white paint, near a small clock
faded floral carpet, under a cream-colored dresser, with ornamental mirror, and black wrought-iron handles, near dressmaker's dummy
books and a teacup, on pastel pink vintage cabinet, with shabby chic look, near bed with floral covers

Swedish Gustavian Style: Characterized by clean lines, pale greys and blues, and a more restrained, elegant feel. Think of a beautifully carved but simple dining chair painted a soft grey.

French Provincial Style: Tends to be more ornate and curvy, with details like carved floral motifs and scalloped edges. It often features creamy whites and soft yellows.

Both have heavily influenced the modern shabby chic aesthetic.

fuchsia and pale pink flowers, painted on white antique chest of drawers, near a pale beige armchair, with wooden legs and armrests
distressed and worn beige paint effect, on large antique wooden cupboard, framed painting and vases
golden legs and armrests, on white french sofa, with rough beige back, shabby chic aesthetic , cushions and vintage books
pale grey and white french sofa, with matching cushions, and white armrests and legs, on rough vintage wooden floor, near stool with flower vase

A high-quality brush is a painter’s best friend. For a smooth, brushstroke-free finish with chalk or latex paint, invest in a good synthetic brush like a Purdy or Wooster. The soft, fine bristles lay the paint down beautifully, saving you sanding time later.

cushions in pale grey and pink, plain and patterned, placed on soft, pale grey modern french sofa, large mirror in white frame, and lamp nearby
bright blue vintage cabinet, with orange paint effect resembling rust, near dark grey unevenly painted wall, and various decorations
shelves made of wood and painted white, over an antique shabby chic kitchen table, with peeling white paint, black and white tiled floor, glasses and decorations

Is a protective top coat really necessary?

Absolutely. Unsealed chalk or milk paint is porous and will absorb spills, oils from hands, and dirt, leading to permanent stains. For most pieces, a soft furniture wax is perfect. For high-traffic surfaces like a tabletop or kitchen chairs, consider a water-based polycrylic like Minwax for a more durable, wipeable finish.

plates and glasses, on large cupboard in cream, with chipped paint effect, near a floral rug in black and green, red and blue, a wreath and several candle holders
four massive wooden planks, unevenly painted in cream, mounted as shelves on grey and white walls, teddy bear and baby shoes, photo in frame and piggy bank
tutorial showing how to repaint old armchairs, in seven steps, pale pink worn armchair, transformed into fuchsia armchair, with reindeer print cushion
digital 3D illustration, depicting pale beige wall, with wooden paneling, coral pink antique table, with small drawer, and a shiny vase containing pink flowers

Get the coveted “limewash” effect by simply thinning your paint. Mix one part latex or chalk paint with one part water to create a thin, semi-transparent wash. Brush it over raw or stripped wood, and immediately wipe most of it off with a clean rag. This technique stains the wood with a hint of color while letting the beautiful grain show through.

square antique shabby chic table, before and after it has been repainted, with dark brown and pale blue paint
set of white antique desk and chair, shabby chic style, photo in ornate golden frame, candles and round decorative mirror
three versions of vintage shabby chic interiors, large rough wooden table, french sofa and beige curtains, white antique chair, with pink pattern near pale blue vintage cupboard

No fancy tools? No problem.

  • Old cotton t-shirts make the best lint-free rags for wiping and buffing.
  • An old toothbrush is perfect for working dark wax into detailed crevices.
  • Wrap sandpaper around a sponge to easily sand curved legs.
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round white plates, on pastel grey dresser, vintage chic style, black wrought-iron chandelier, square wooden table with chairs
indoor plants and various decorations, inside a shabby chic kitchen, with vintage chandelier, and worn-looking antique furniture, with chipped white paint
several cushions in dark grey and white, on shabby chic sofa, near a white, antique kitchen table, with matching chairs

“The key to a good restoration is to whisper the piece’s history, not shout it.” – Will Kirk, The Repair Shop

frilly white covers, on a big fluffy bed, near pale patterned, shabby chic sofa, and other vintage furniture
modern country chic dining room, with large white table, and matching bench, covered with shabby sheek cushions, beige fabric chairs
rough brick wall, inside a industrial shabby chic kitchen, white antique table with peeling paint, and matching chairs, various vintage kitchen furniture pieces

Wet Distressing: A dust-free method perfect for creating a subtle, blended look. After your paint has dried for an hour or two, simply use a damp (not soaking) lint-free rag or a fine-grit wet sanding sponge to gently rub away the paint on the edges and high points. It creates a softer, more naturally worn effect than dry sanding.

crystal chandelier hanging in shabby chic kitchen, pastel blue walls and pastel pink furniture, white ornamental kitchen island, many decorative items and a flower pot
bench swing painted in pastel pink, hanging from pink chains, near a small white antique ornamental table, with a white jug, containing pink peonies
wing chair in antique style, pale cream with pattern, and white armrests, partly covered in beige fabric
dark grey chair with cream stripes, graphic print on its backrest, black legs and armrests, vintage french style

Your next project piece might be closer than you think. The best sources are often local and low-cost. Keep an eye on Facebook Marketplace, neighborhood garage sales, and thrift stores like Goodwill. The key is to look for good “bones”—solid wood construction and interesting shapes—and ignore the dated finish.

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gold and white wing chair, antique shabby chic style, with graphic print cushion, near grey ornamental table, decorated with glass bottles and a statuette, crystal chandelier and a large clock mural

Warning for Veneer: Be incredibly careful when sanding furniture with a wood veneer top. This is a very thin layer of real wood over a base material. Aggressive sanding, especially with an electric sander, can burn right through the veneer, exposing the particleboard or MDF underneath. It’s a mistake that is nearly impossible to fix.

John Griffith
John Griffith

John combines 12 years of experience in event planning, interior styling, and lifestyle curation. With a degree in Visual Arts from California Institute of the Arts and certifications in event design, he has styled luxury weddings, corporate events, and celebrity celebrations. John believes in creating memorable experiences through innovative design and attention to detail.

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